From Daddy to Asher   

I miss being with you and playing together with you, and going to the parky with you. Remember how we used to enjoy tea, juicy, and "mena" together. You are such a big part of my life, my precious son. I love you so much Asher! Love, Daddy

 

audio recordings

Asher 1

Asher 2

 

Happy Birthday Asher!

 

You were 4 years old on April 24, 2024. Unfortunately I was not allowed to be with you on your birthday and I was not even allowed to send you a gift because I was not told were you are, so I didn't know where to send a gift to. And I was not allowed to talk with you on your birthday. I was not even told about anything at all that happened on your birthday. Your mother continues to use you as a weapon against me. But I am thinking about you my precious son! I love you so much and I miss you so much!

I am so sorry sweetheart. I don't know anything that is going on in your life. This is May 28, 2024 and I am not told anything that happens there with you, and I do not know anything about your situation there or what you are involved with or what happens in your life. It is not because I do not care about you that you do not hear from me, but it is because mommy blocks me out of your life and prevents me from communicating with you, and prevents you from communicating with me. I am so sorry about this Asher!


I love you Asher!

 

Your grama (Jane Siamafuwa) and your cousins Martin and Natalie Siamafuwa, and your uncles and aunts (the brothers and sisters of your mother) in Zambia supported your being taken away from me, and not one of them tried to intervene to stop it. They are all against you and me, and shamefully not one of them had the courage to stand up for what is right and defend you and me. Do not be deceived by how friendly and sweet they appear to be to you. This is an act. Have nothing to do with any of your relatives in Zambia.

I came across this song called "My Son" which is sung by Vera Lynn who sang to the Bristish military abroad during WW2.